Im interviewing for new jobs, Im proactively financially preparing to leave and be able to care for myself and daughter.
She is starting college in January - so the timeing of this is like pulling the rug from beneath us both. I am having to register her at a local college instead of away, to save money. And I have no idea where we will live.
So, I have a lot on my plate - but Im doing it. Im definitely depressed but Ive been staying busy and not moping around the house.
Some direct questions regarding the 180. We are sharing a bed, given that I had emptied the guest room a few months ago for a remodel. I sleep on a couch when its too hard for me - but what should I be doing here? If I set up another bed should I make him sleep in it?
He doesnt want to tell his family yet, he is generally very private when dealing with them. So, he wasnts me to go to Thanksgiving dinner at his Moms. My daughter, who is 17 - simply wont and I will not make her. This would be difficult on me emotionally as I love his family, especialy his siblings. But I can do it if I should.
