Well Portia, if my experience is anything to go by, they keep on and on. My xh ran fast and hard, and in the middle period (sound like the Egyptian dynasties!) I went for months at a time with no contact, but is now constantly emailing me. Not because he appears to like me. I have had at least 8 emails since Thursday when I told him that I wanted no more emails. No response from me, but that doesn't stop them . . .

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Nero pegged it - for someone who used to make me feel happy and good, now only hurts me and makes me feel bad.


Yes, that is exactly it. They seem at pains to let us know how little they think of us, and yet, and yet, they do not leave us alone.

My xh claimed he went to therapy, but then he told one of my sons that 'all they wanted to do was talk about his childhood and he couldn't see what that had to do with anything!'

Onwards and upwards. One day this wil all be a bad dream.