Sorry to keep posting. But i'm Killing it with validation.
W emailed me and asked what she should do about our MC tonight. I told her that I had scheduled a sitter, and that i would be attending. She is more than welcome to attend.
She said she felt conflicted, and uncomfortable about going. I validated. Let her know that there was no reason she needed to make a decision right now, that she could take the day and feel things out. I said " i know this is really hard for you, and that it makes you uncomfortable".
She replied with...
Thank you CC! "You have been so great. You have been so patient, and understanding with me."
Whether she decides to come to MC or not tonight is another thing. But i'm chalking this up as a win.
