Exposure

[willbwell]

I could easily expose the A, but I have not.
I think h knows this and sadly it is my calling card.Not that I am holding it over his head. I have not said once I would use this info against him. His A is with an underling a work. A big NO-NO.
Our D process has started. h filed. h wants to 'move on'
I would like to tell a(female) coworker of h who I think he respects to please speak to him.
Not one of his male friends have called h on his behavior. Too many people take the attitude of "not my business".

I feel h has had 0 consequences.

I gain nothing by exposing the A
Am I too nice to h? yes,