Your post made me cry. I was so touched by it. You have been through the mill for so long and H is finally acknowledging it. Finally. I can only imagine what kind of feelings and emotions washed through you and are probably still experiencing.
I have no interest in divorcing or dating right now. When I am, I'll take action. I am not there and that's ok. And I still love my H, and that's ok too.
But for now, it’s just baby steps continuing with my goal of treating H with the kindness that the father of my children deserves, not because of his actions, but because of how I want to act and who I want to be – despite of who he is or what he does…
This touches me. This expresses who I want to be. This inspires me. To me this expresses who I imagine you to be.
I have missed you KG. I was thinking about you the other day, and it warms my heart to read a post that is finally positive and validating of your feelings and your struggles.
You are like a sister to me.
Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being so wonderful.
I wish you a very happy holiday season. Filled with the peace, love and happiness you deserve. Here is to another year of growth and internal peace.
I have moved to MLC Forum. My struggles remain the same...
All my love to you and your beautiful children.....
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home