Hi all. I'm new here.

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Ahhh. So that makes my situation extra difficult. The last time she left she was angry. This time not so much. She's actually really nice to me and shows signs of improving herself. She's claiming to be more mindful of her thoughts. Lots of positives, but all these positives don't really mean anything. Or do they? Confusion!!!!

We actually shared a nice emotional hug when we were separating our son's toys. The last time it was more like, "you have this and ill take this". Very cold and not personal at all. I'm glad she's showing me some vulnerability.

I'm thinking the real test will be when she moves out next week. Will she continue this charade of being nice or will she go into dark mode. Maybe she genuinely wants time apart to figure her stuff out. Who knows but we'll find out. I'm just gonna keep on keeping on.