It's hard because we are hurting and have some feelings and emotions we need to get out and deal with. I think of it as PTSD. You might have something on that rubber bracelet STFU.
You'd be surprised what you can find at near new type shops on dresses, wedding or other nice ones. Lots of nice things for cheapy.
I don't think two people HAVE to be married to be married, but that's just me. It still is the priority that you make each other and how you treat each other every day that matters. I wish I'd know those things earlier. Ah, well.
Another Groundhog Day of STFU. c'mon tigerlil, we can do it!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.