Ok tthat sounded snippy but I should take it as a learning moment. There was probably a better way to present it rather than "you could. .." he views that as me giving permission. I could have said it a different way such as "that bed has a more comfortable cushion if you feel like switching. " IDK if that is any better.
Did he say it was controlling?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
