Here's my question. I read somewhere on here that sometimes an amicable WAS is just as bad as an angry one. Which is worse? Does it really matter? Does it depend on circumstance?
An amicable WAS is what a lot of people term "low energy". It's easy to misinterpret the feelings of a low energy WAS, they give off all the signals and vibes of a WAS that is considering reconciliation, but usually that's not what they're thinking at all. They still want D, they're just not in a hurry to do anything about it.
My W is low energy as well. I had to learn over and over again to drop my expectations, because it's easy to get your hopes up with a LE WAS.
