Nice poem, JF. And I also love the church message. I don't go to church but it is amazing to me how people post the timeliness of the church messages to what is going on in their lives. Seems like church would be good therapy!
It seems like your sitch is just going along. At least your W isn't spewing any venom, that is good. Just let her do her own thing and she will awake like Sleeping Beauty, someday.
I think you are doing an outstanding job with your boys. You are a tremendous example to them, keep it up.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.