My WW keeps saying the affair is over. And she wants a divorce because of our bad marriage. Well Friday night I figured out what hotel they were meeting at. So me and the OMs wife went to the hotel to confront them. The four of us met in the hotel lobby. OM barely said anything, but my WW, OMW, and I talked. My WW said she wants to be with the OM. So I know the truth now is that WW is still deeply attached to the OM.
I figure it's pretty much over. But I don't want to divorce. The divorce process is moving forward. Is it too late? What can I do now? Should I even try to talk my WW about stopping or at least delaying the D? I'm feeling so sad and desperate.