I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

Sunday was a decent day. W took our son out for the better part of the day. When they got back I played with him. I have been doing a decent job this far of applying the 37 rules and detaching. I feel like she might be kind of wondering why I haven't brought up our marriage and why I'm not begging like I always do. So that is good for me I guess. How do others respond when they feel as though their S is trying to draw them in to reverting to past behaviors?

For example, she took down a bunch of pictures of me and my son that were in the bedroom. I said nothing.

And when I was playing with my son I told him I love him, and from the other room she yells what about me?

She also continues to question every little thing that I do. For example when she got home today I was in jeans and a sweatshirt, I had been doing more yard work. And she wanted to know why I was all dressed up!! She kept asking me what I did and where I went while she was gone.

And she continuously asks me who I was with last night and what I was doing. We had some trust issues to begin with, I feel like maybe the detaching is making those worse for her. But I will continue what I have started