I posted to you on Laurie's thread this morning. Great stuff!!!!
You are doing such a great job at not letting H get to you or taking things personally.
I don't know why your H won't do things with you...his anger is gone it seems but I wouldn't rule out depression. As Laurie says, he just needs to ride it out and get through this stage. I'm sure you'll have your H "back" before you know it...you deserve it!
How's the little guy?
Hope you have a good weekend. Have fun with your gf and I hope the little one is better.