I do know that him opening up to me and even arguing with me is a good sign, as he used to just hold it back. Should I just let him talk to me in that awful condescending tone or did I do the right thing? His tone is hard to describe, but to me it is like nails on a chalkboard and it just rubs me the wrong way. I want to hear what he has to say, just not like that! I told him I have no problem talking about it if we could talk normally.
I am still so upset that we argued.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.