I also want to point out that your h may involve others in this game of terror. My xh had people that he had been chatting w/on FB and co-workers call me all hours of the day and night. MLCers don't necessarily get their own hands dirty, but can illicit the help of others by whining that the LBs is a witch and taking him/her to the cleaners and of course, their friends think that they are helping the MLCer to reach their goal of getting what they want, i.e., the process moving along quicker, etc.
I'm not telling you this to scare you, but to help you see what some of these nut jobs do all in the name of MLC. Watch your back, pay closer to attention to your surroundings and begin looking around your house when you return home from being out for any length of time, especially if you are gone longer than a couple of hours. Also, advise your neighbors that you are having some vandalism issues and ask that they keep an eye out.
The more steps that you take to protect yourself and your home, the better.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
