Shiny,

Yeah the man sure knows how to play the role of an *ss doesn't he?

I told him this morning I was going to a hockey game tonight with a gf and his response was "you can't make plans" Yes he is a control person, but I WILL NOT be controlled. For everything he thinks he can control he can't. He knows better, that if he doesn't want to parent our son when I have plans, then I'll get my sister, my mom, my SIL..a sitter...I'm not sitting at home.

At this time, my H is not interested in doing anything with me, which is fine. Doesn't mean I'm going to sit home either.

Cathy