Just a general impression: It seems to me that your H is very fixated on being in control (even of your actions/timing) and being RIGHT about everything.
He slams your parenting skills, cleaning skills etc...I wonder if this is a well-learned cover for his own feelings of insecurity?
Talk about denial...can he honestly think that one McD's meal is a crisis? That such a meal is more harmful to your S than his own displays of anger and disrespect? His cheating, his comments about "not living here" his absenses, his late nights....
Same with his snide remarks about the sink etc...It's like he's making himself feel better by shooting darts at you.
You're doing well by NOT responding as you might have in the past.
