It's only fear that makes you run

[Whiterose]

Oh Job, thank you, I definitely don't feel like I'm doing great, feel like I'm drowning. I guess birds of a feather.....I think it's awfully odd that he counsels G on how to save his marriage. Yeah, ok!!!!!

AJM that's a good point "figuring out their own stuff". Actually, funny story, a girlfriend of mine knew of a lady at her work who's h had mlc with PA and proceeded with d and everything. His friend also considering leaving his wife for PA and he counselled him on not doing it "why would you want to start all over?" And the light switched back on for him and he realized he was talking about his own stitch and broke up with OW and ended up back with w. Odd story I know but this was their story.

Anyway, I think, with all this texting I'm feeling lonely for him again. Just talked to my cousin, who's been through a D, and she's worried he may not be ordered to back pay child support as there's no order in place, the document he filed with the courts may not be enough to force it or the judge won't care, I'm so frustrated right now!!!!!