Bea, thank you for responding. I will email my attorney and look into the camera installation.
Xh is deep into his addiction and I believe that his gf is enabling him and is likely a gambler herself. The two of them have created a house of cards, literally, that is going to come crashing down. Addicted people do all kinds of things out of desperation. They need to survive and feed their addiction at all costs.
The boys and I are off to church. Other than being with my Dad, it's the only place where I feel safe and a sense of peace.