I suggested to W we borrow a smaller amount fix up the house and sell, however she rejected this suggestion. She said she doesn’t trust me as I may fix up the house and change my mind and decide to keep it. Then there will be less equity in the house for her if I decided to buy her out and I will be living in a fancy house. When I said I can’t change my mine she said “oh I don’t trust you, you always find a way to change your mind”.
Anyway as for what I do now not 100% sure, was chatting with one of my nieces and she says take a few days, lick your wounds, then get on with formulating your new plan. Most likely will down size and get a smaller place. But not started yet but I will get a move on.
