Thank you job. I see the wisdom on waiting on this. I do not have a desire to move especially under these circumstances. My healing has taken me quite some time and I am still in the process. I'm still fragile. I know I need to think of me and the kids first now.

I think I have said my peace for now to H in my texts and will leave it at that for the time being.

The last time I spoke with my coach and told him how I saw things from my perspective he thought there was a shift in H for the better. We both couldn't determine what the reasons were for it. So like you say, i will sit and let the answers come.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home