Your h is reconnecting w/G because G is pretty much single again and MLCers will gravitate towards separated and/or divorced people. "Birds of a feather, flock together" as they say. Oh, yes, they do love to provide advice on what to do when it comes to divorce and separation of others going through it. Like they have a clue. LOL!
Yep, I thought this was odd at first as well. My ex has/does? did the same. Advice about how to live, how to divorce, etc. I wondered about that as it seemed odd that somebody that can't figure out their own stuff, is giving advice. Go figure right? Eventually, it occurred to me that this may be a way of figuring things out. By "helping" somebody else, they work on their own issues in a "safe" way. Much like a psychologist in many instances (ever met one socially? Yikes in many (not all) cases.
I suspected at the time that was a lot of the "reason" for giving advice. To work their own problems through others.
Ironic in some ways.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
