Fly, I've just gone to the other thread and read what you're saying. The fact that Iva's H has got an OW and he has been nasty on the phone makes me think that contact isn't a good idea. Iva I think you're doing well with the no contact personally, you'll find your own time when you do need to contact him. It's for you to decide when that will be and for you alone
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!