That's great you and S enjoyed the festivities last night.

In reference to your previous post w/ H asking you to breakfast after S asked if you were coming as well....that's a time you can practice acting "as if"....even though you assumed you H was maybe on the fence about you coming, instead of going with that assumption and saying you are unsure, "act as if" you are happy to come along and make it a great time and most likely you H who may or may not have been on the fence will be happy you wanted to join in. In those moments you can choose to stay back if you really want to as well, but be confident in giving your decision.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope