Iva,

I'm going to post back in your original thread, cause that's where the back story is. It took a bit of bouncing around to catch up on your sitch.

Here's the story, maybe more will join there now, since that's where you lay out the issues.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2385372#Post2385372

Hope others start chiming in, its a very interesting side, one we don't get to see a whole lot of to be honest. Thank you for coming forward, its some great insight for others, and don't be surprised if others pick your brain a bit.