Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

[BrightFuture]

HWS, you have something to look forward to! You have going to your home, you will have your sons and family, you will still have your job in the city. And there are a lot more things to do there!

As for your W affair, I think Wonka said that it is still in a puppy love stage. After reading your updates on this, I can’t help thinking that there is something strange about it. You said that your W never showed any signs of being interested in women. My thought were (after following your posts for some time) that this R is one of these were two women just bond on some issues (like being disappointed in men) and they do all things together, so it looks like they are a couple. But, in reality, they could be just very close friends. I remember when I was working on the project where I met my H, it was in a different town and we had to be there 3 weeks out of the months. I lived with my GF in the apartment rented by the company we worked for, and we did everything together, we travelled back home together, we had our children to visit us at the same time (her Mom brought them), we ate together, we were inseparable. I was divorced with my first XH at the time and went thought a break up with my BF. I was not interested in any men at that time, I was done with being in any R with the men. So, there were rumors on the project that I and my GF were lesbians. Ironically, this was the project where I met my current H. I’m telling all these to you because I’m not convinced that your W is in a real R with the woman. I might be very wrong here though. I don’t want to give you a false hope. Just give it some time, enjoy your life and the answers will come.