I wanted to tell everyone.. I wanted him to be as unhappy as me but I also felt like we could rebuild. I could not see us rebuilding on the base of his hurt and anger.. so sure I have swallowed my pride. I believe his sister might suspect... but we have agreed that we don't talk about our marriage
If it is clear that we are over then I would tell the people who care about me why so they can look after me.. I would be loathe to tell the children. Thet want to be able to love both parents and seeing that one parent hS made the other really unhappy puts them in a bad place J am not saying I am right. Just my view...
