It's only fear that makes you run

[Whiterose]

Thank yo up job!
H texted me again ago the photos today, three days in a row, wow. Me chatty pants this week!

Was messaging with my friend, the one that can still talk to h once in a while, and she asked me if I knew about her brother and his wife? My stomach sunk. I said no.....she left him about a month ago. She couldn't take it anymore and I guess was refusing to work on their marriage and slept on the couch so he kicked her out. About a week later she came home and moved into their youngest daughter's room but still refusing to work on them.

Here's a bit of odd history.

H and this man (G) were best friends when H lived on the shore. When H's parents moved away H pretty much lived out of G's car and was able to stay on the shore. G started dating T. Dated for a couple of years at this point. T broke up with G to date H. They dated for about 8-10 months and broke up. H and G grew apart during this time, obviously, and that's when H and I met at work. T didn't believe I existed because my name is unusual but when she realized I was real started dating G again. Got pregnant, on purpose, lost the baby. I got pregnant, not on purpose, had S19 and she ended up getting pregnant again and their oldest is 6-8 mons younger than mine. H is still friends and we go out all together once in a while, boxing days together. That kinda thing. Eventually drifted apart until H left me and now he's friends with G again. Now T leaves and H tries to advise G on how to save his marriage. REALLY?!?!! G's sister and I were chatting and she tried saying to me it was different and I asked How???? She left him h left me. Neither one wants to work on the marriage. G doesn't want this I don't want this. How on earth can None of them see what is going on here??

Side note to the side note. When H came to see me and S19 in hospital, a few hours after he was born, it was G who came with him for moral support (because H had left me when I got pregnant so this was the first real interaction since the break up)

What a mess!!!!

Job it would seem that the last time H talked to G's sister he said to it's still moving too slow for him and that there's still no OW No interest in women.