Gabbysmom, ok maybe its not anger that you harbor. Maybe that's just how you are wink

Back to the exposure. I would also like to add that most of the counselors who advocate exposure only recommend that you tell ONE person. That person should be someone that your wayward looks up to.

So in a sense if this is what you all are referring to as exposure, then maybe i agree more. But the nucleur type where you go around telling literally everyone is probably not a good idea.

Anyone else agree? To those who exposed, did you tell one person or many? How did it work out?

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017