I had my X arrested today

[sleeper]

Now, what does that say about the character of him and her?

C has said X "has a borderline personality." IMHO the narcissistic aspect of her "borderline personality" is in full swing. He has also commented her H is "never wrong" (apparently her H's opinion of himself). It must be a very interesting dynamic in their home and C has commented my wife and I "may be the only stability" in my kids lives (a conclusion of his that brings me no comfort).

...OMH recorded the event and swore that he would show it to your kids it was out of spite...

Yeah, I know.

They're both very juvenile (arrested development?) and my kids are living with them.

I saw my son today at his lacrosse game, spoke to him after the game. It was very cold for a game in shorts (43). He's basically shut down emotionally.