1) I could give up work & look after our son full-time.
2) Our son could live at the house with me and she could come and be with him at the house during the day while I went to work
3) She could come home & live as room mates without me trying to talk to her or pressure her. Giving her space and allowing her to have her own life.
She rejected all of these options.
When I was explaining option 3 to her I felt like it sounded like I was begging and pleading with her again, but I wasn't, I didn't mean it to come across like that I just wanted to be clear that I wouldn't pester her like I think she imagines.
Also, I don't want them to end up in a bad area, but she is living with her parents at the moment & they have plenty of money so I don't think they would let that happen.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014