LABug. I have the number for Alanon programmed in my phone. That is as far as I have gotten. I have been afraid to go to meeting because I didn't want my H to know. I will look at work schedule and see if I can do some creative tweaking to get to a daytime meeting.

In the meantime I will look through some of your posts to see if there are any tips to help

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15