Accuray has such a way with words! Read that post up above (#2407501) several times, it is absolutely brilliant. That describes what I went through in my sitch (and the mistakes I made) perfectly.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57