Exposure

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Gabbysmom, this thread may not be the right place for this comment, but in a lot of ways it is. Have you thought about finding a way to let go of your anger?

All your posts and advice to people has this anger undertone, and you just made it clear why. You would ve loved to tell the whole world what your husband did, and tarnish his image in the worst possible way. You feel victimized, and I agree that you are (we all are in many ways) but tha is no way to live.

If you knew you were too angry to ever reconcille, which it sounds like is your general view on cheating, then why did you expose a all? Was it revenge? Does it make you feel better?

If you never intended on reconcilling then you know who pays the biggest price for your revenge tactic? Not your ex, but your daughter. She is the one that has to live with the new image of her father.

Let go of the anger.