His complaint about me is that I don't make enough money, that my daughter and I have run him into the ground. I could spend time here defending that absolutely , but that's not why we're here.

Although he was a serial cheater the first 4 years of our 8year marriage, I think it stopped a few years ago. Sex dwindled as he stopped cheating. Basically stopped two years ago. I suspect it is because of ED. I still do. Although he denies it is a medical problem.

Up until 2 weeks ago, he was very very affectionate and loving. He lost a political election nov. 5th.

Im going to get away for the day today and do what you said.

Thank you.


M: 49. H: 49
D: 17
Married: 8.5
Bomb: 11/09/13