I don't know if you are a Christian, but this is the foundation of the Christian faith. We choose sin and are responsible for the consequences of that sin. But God, out of love, has compassion for us and sent his son to die for us and redeem us.
You are simply showing love and compassion. These are admirable traits.
But, you are not Jesus. It is not you're job to save her. And I agree with job that you need to "let it go".
