Quote: Have you read "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian?
I got this book as a Christmas gift from my SIL. I started reading it last month. It's wonderful. I've always prayed to keep my family/friends safe, for them to be ok, for a special thing in their lives, etc...but I don't know think I ever really knew HOW to pray for them. I started this book and it became clear to me HOW I should pray for them. It's a great book.
You can pray for different areas of your H's life all at the same time, choose a particular area or say a prayer-a-day. There's also a prayer for yourself....asking God to help you be a better person and wife. I read this one everyday. I believe it falls within the DB principles of working on yourself.
Anyway, please look into it; I think it will help.