he has said nothing.. just less and less contact Said he was seing some one else.. but there are only 3 people who know.. him her and ME!!!! really... no talk of divorce, or proper separation.. we were living apart for work so that sort of covers that question for anyone who asks No one at work needs to know he said, did nt tell his sister.. parents tell you what if I ws in her shoes i would be feeling rather used ???? but then she does have a husband and three children who she still lives with so maybe she doesn't have my moral standards. . but a friendlier telephone conversation today.. initiated by me.. he seemed OK with it not as irritated as lst time . I started it and I finished it and he wrote himself a note to ring sunday night ( wrote a note ?????? what on earth is happening in his head?) he asked when he should come home next ??? really the answer is every bloody weekend but then i said let me think about when would work for me
So if I had outed him on FB or called his friends and family.. would we be having any friendly conversations?ß I don't think so and while he has not made any plans for anything formal between us and I sense the fun of the affair could be fading.. then swallowing my pride for the moment is a way forward Eventually if we reconcile there will be different conversations
so the place where I live is still limbo.. and yes it is an undesirable neighbourhood.
