Have you read "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian? She also has a workbook and prayer cards to pray for your H. I think they're lovely and I keep them on my desk when I'm feeling frustrated... and always feel better after I grab a few.
Just a thought if you wanted something to help you figure out things to pray for your H.
Hugs,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."