Hi 3 sorry to hijack your thread. I just realised I did that this morning.It was one of those days...no need to say more Good advice.. he would hate it if I involved her and so would she.
I like the idea of sending the hey I am doing great message...that I can do even if I have to enhance the "greatness"!!!!
and he didn't call sent a message at 21.30 he would call today.. so I sent him the times I am available to talk. I don't want to give the impression I sit here like a pet waiting for him to deem to talk to me...
so I was thinking of taking up golf (GAL) the only clubs here are his..I guess I should ask to use them.. but don't really want to. I feel like he has left the things he doesn't really want so I can use them... but I am more honest than that... I can't let this sitch make me mean..
I have so much admiration for you guys doing this with kids. Yesterday I allowed myself to cry as much as I wanted and as loudly as I wanted and anywhere in the house I wanted. Sure stressed the pup.. he wanted to sit on my lap but he weighs 30 kilos so it was quite ridiculous and did make me laugh for a minute... but that I couldn't do if I had other people in the house - all the crying I mean.
thanks for the good advice. ..... hate to think how badly I would mess this up without DB. and all the support
