Hi all. I'm new here.

[2ndTimeHurt]

Things are going ok I guess. We're getting along and I've managed to do a few things that I wasn't able to do during our first 14 months apart. She actually let me hug her(reluctantly mind you, she was sick so I felt like hugging her), she also let me rub her feet(something we always used to do). These are things she would never let me get away with the last time we separated. Tomorrow is my friend's wedding social and there is also the possibility of me going with her to her work Xmas party(it's only bowling, haha). Anyway I am looking forward to hanging out with her tomorrow.

Here's my question. I read somewhere on here that sometimes an amicable WAS is just as bad as an angry one. Which is worse? Does it really matter? Does it depend on circumstance?

The last time she left she was very cold, distant, resentful etc. She was very hurt from my actions. This time it seems she's more comfortable around me. Why would she invite me to her Xmas party for example? She has also asked me out to the pub twice already. The last time we went out it was just me and her. Again, this never happened during our first break up.

How do I handle the amicable WAS? The exact same way I'm guessing but I don't know for sure. All I know is, I'm taking this one day at a time and I'm keeping up with my PMA.