H is now residing in the lower level (LL) of our house. H is going out to a hockey game with and his friends. Which is fine. I'm getting tickets for them all.
Do I:
a. Ask H if he will be home tonight as he's leaving b. As there more than likely will be heavy drinking involved since these are his drinking buddies, do I let H know that he can call me if he needs a ride home? Or is this enabling? I've never offered in the past.
I'm ASSuming from bits and pieces that H tells me that OW does do this for H, drives him when he's drank too much. I'm thinking she might do this to ensure H does got her place. The night H came home, H told me that she offered to drive him home as he had been drinking and H said that he was driving himself tonight--to ME. I'm ASSuming that OW might show her face at the bar and if H is drinking will insist she drive him home..to her place.
It's occurring to me know that when H is drinking and OW isn't invited, she does show up and drive my H around or back to her place.
Or, do I just say to H "have a great time and be safe" as he's leaving? It is journey right, maybe I'm just obsessing too much about the whole thing.
