Now, slowly, what are his complaints about you? The marriage?
His age makes him ripe for a mid life crisis. How was his childhood? Parents?
No sex for a year sounds fishy. Any other reason for you to believe he is seeing someone else? If he is, would you still stay in the marriage if he confessed his mistake and reformed?
Lets start there. Please take time to gather your thoughts and be detailed. We want to help you but its hard with so much emotions interfering with your written thoughts.
This is a difficult time and we have ALL been there! Take care of yourself. Eat, breath, sleep, exercise and stay in close contact with your kids. Focus on the things in your life that are not in turmoil. Take the time to smell the roses....
Life is beautiful. Dont forget that.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
