Hi Fitz,

I'm four months from BD and about a month or so into DBing. It [censored], so know that you're not the only one going through this. What I am learning so far:

1) There is stuff I want to change in my life.

2) If my W walks away for good, it will not be my choice - BUT, I will survive.

3) My W has her own big issues and this is causing her not to acting normally. Thus, the importance of not believing what she says or does.

4) I do have some control issues, even though I was blind to them. So, even if W is throwing the "control script" at me, there is validity there.m

5) The process will take longer than I want.

Good luck sir.

s4tk


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Me: 37 W: 37
M: 11
D:5 S:2
IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13
EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13
W moved out 05/14