I'm four months from BD and about a month or so into DBing. It [censored], so know that you're not the only one going through this. What I am learning so far:
1) There is stuff I want to change in my life.
2) If my W walks away for good, it will not be my choice - BUT, I will survive.
3) My W has her own big issues and this is causing her not to acting normally. Thus, the importance of not believing what she says or does.
4) I do have some control issues, even though I was blind to them. So, even if W is throwing the "control script" at me, there is validity there.m
5) The process will take longer than I want.
Good luck sir.
s4tk
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14