Thanks for the replies. Eventhough he was in a miserable mood while while doing the yard...can't blame him, LOL. I did tell him he did a nice job on the lawn. He muttered a quiet "thanks" and that was it. S6 and I made dinner together and we ate together. H was still closed off to me and seemed so angry.
Yes, I do think depression and MLC are definitely players in our sitch. H ver dealt with the loss of our twins nd almost loosing me. I was a very hard time for all, but he bottled so much up inside. I wish he would seek IC, but will not.
I am still so confused. He mentions divorce 2 1/2 months ago, then nothing..don't get me wrong, i want time on my side.