Cathy..you are getting such good words of support...I don't know if you were on my post or not..but my h wants to work on oour m..
I won't steal your thread with long details..but will say that he describes the journey he has been on as a fast moving train that he could not get off of..and that moving out, avoiding me..wanting a d, not facing all that has happened, were all easier then getting off the train and facing them..but with time(he has been gone almost a 1 1/2 years..but the m was gone a good 2 years before)space, patience, getting myself put together and most of all prayer...he has gottten off and wants to go forward with life and the m.
Take care of you right now..cause there is nothing you can say or do to change what your h is feeling..it is about him...something I have struggled with...wondering what I done wrong.
Look at the positives that are around you...and they are there..and move forward. Find the resources you need to help you...
