I hope you're doing ok. Sounds like a very emotional exchange.
Please step back and leave it for tonight. Doesn't sound like he is in way able to really hear what you are saying right now. I'm sorry for the frustration you are feeling. I know how maddening it can be. Pull back and regain your center--do it for your son if you can't do it for you. He needs you more than ever with his dad off in adolescent skaterland.
Aspies are so terrible at expressing their feelings, but you know how good they are at sensing trouble. Your son will feel your stress. It's unavoidable. Pull the focus back to you and your son. Nice and easy, slow and steady.
Vent here if needed.
Much love to you.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
