Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

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Thanks Wonka and TTD180.
Not much else I can do, apart from get the swagger back. Off to a "getting out of here" party tonight. Yay. Only 20 days to go.
24th Wedding anniversary on Monday, felt like writing a big letter about how much it still means to me and the memories. But the reality is, it won't do anything, won't mean anything (to the W) and will be an absolute waste of time and energy. Sad really, but the truth.
Coach session this Thursday, looking forward to that.
Bit more packing, but very limited to what I can do. We have packers come and do it all, so don't have any boxes etc earlier. It is all packed on the day.
So small stuff is being done, things that will go with me in the car, the little shelving plugs put into bags. Cables for electrical stuff bagged up. Important paperwork and books (DB and DR) in the car.
Still haven't received the important piece of paperwork from the W's solicitor. Nearly 3 weeks late. Haven't got the new valuations for the houses either yet, so doesn't matter.
No family or friend have replied or contacted me. So don't know if they know about the affair or not yet. Maybe it is still the Mum only. The ex best friend didn't reply to my text either.