How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

I think it was out of his comfort zone.

I have to say, the way he would initiate was the way I believe men with to have a woman initiate.

As a woman, for me it wasn't romantic or sexy.

He would go for my breasts like I was a radio, or grab my rear, etc.

I would have preferred him grabbing my whole body, or jump me by surprise.

Now this is my fault too. I was afraid to tell him this. I was afraid I would insult him or hurt his feelings . It's hard because I know men like to be grabbed or touched directly.

It wasn't erotic for me, it was...I don't know, predictable, annoying? Also, the bedroom was boring to me.

Aaaaah, this really does get me thinking, but also it is SO frustrating.