I took responsibility that it wasn't his fault that I couldn't climax.
That's commendable. I think my wife sort of blamed me on this point some years back.
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He went to her he says, because he needed to be touched, he was going crazy.
Well, if those were his exact words, he overreached! You can go to a legit massage therapist and get that!
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Now at the time he went to her...was in the middle of us selling our house, one daughter falling apart, and me stressed beyond compare. He never told me how he felt.
Just guessing here, and I could be way wrong in your case. But having been in what sounds like a similar situation, when my wife sends out signals that she is stressed out, and she didn't want sex even when she wasn't stressed, I'm not inclined to burden her with my needs and why she's not meeting them. Most men would say they know when to shut up.
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I asked if he would hold my face ore head. I also asked for him to take me passionately, not rape, not aggressively but , throw me up against a wall.
Ooh, I like that. Wish my wife had made those requests!
